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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:01

How does one succeed in life?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Can it be true that people know your name, not your story, they’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through, so take their opinions of you with a grain of salt?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What is your review of working in EY?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why should you never do drugs? Will this story absolutely shock you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

That's it for today.

What I need from you?

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Ask yourself:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What is the degree of influence of Saudi Wahhabism on the modern Muslim world?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

My wife admitted to cheating on me with a married man. Should I tell this man and his wife that I know?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Is there a stereotype that South Indians are physically strong and muscular compared to other regions of India?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Does not procrastinate.

Procrastinates a lot.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How conservative the Japanese people really is? And the government?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What does it mean to you to live a life that reflects biblical values?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why do some straight men enjoy wearing women's lingerie?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Have you ever followed through being bi-curious?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.